Back in 2017, I was responsible for the reflection for this same Sunday – the Lazarus story. I wrote, “I am the resurrection and the light, and whoever believes in me, though they die, will live, and everyone who lives and believes in me will never die.” These are the words that can sustain us at a time when we are vulnerable to feelings of shock, numbness, sadness, loneliness, helplessness, anger – all part of the grieving process for those who are left behind.
Since then, I have also come to the realization that, yes, life does change at death, but does not end. Death now becomes a passageway. It doesn’t become a terrible event that has to be some kind of wonderful thing that happened. Jesus is trying to reveal to Martha that death is only a transition. It’s a movement; moving from one place to another. But death is not the end. Death doesn’t have the last word; death doesn’t get the final say. It is not the final separation from those we love, nor is death the final separation from the God who loves us.
Jesus did not immediately rush to Martha and Mary when they let Him know that Lazarus was dying. I’m sure they were annoyed when He did not get there “on time” to stop Lazarus from dying. Jesus is never “late”. His timing is always perfect. Like many people, I have had issues with God’s timing. I get anxious, afraid, and start questioning. When I think He is slow to answer (my timing) I need to remember that He knows what I need and when I need it. I need to remember this truth and work on my patience and trust. This will help me withstand the storms of life. I saw a quote by Vinay that encapsulates this, “God’s delay is not God’s denial.”
Rev. David Yarborough, pastor of St. Simon’s Community Church, wrote, “Take heart, dear friend. Jesus is the resurrection and the life. He can breathe life in any situation you are dealing with. Entrust your situation to God. Entreat Him to bring forth the greatest glory possible in your life and situation. And then watch out to see what God does. It may seem like He is doing nothing at the moment, but He may be doing more than you could ever imagine. If you don’t believe me, just ask Lazarus. “
I read a passage in a young man’s obituary that may be suitable for the theme of Lazarus. It said, “So grieve for a while if you must, then let the grief be comforted by trust. It’s only for a while that we must part, so treasure the memories within your heart. Though you can’t see or touch me, I will be near and if you listen with your heart, you will hear my love around you soft and clear.”
The raising of Lazarus is a story about the fullness of life in the here and now, not just in some kind of life after this life. Lazarus is one guide to lead us on the road to life in all its fullness. If we live united with Jesus, faithful to Him, we will be able to face life and the passage of death with hope and serenity – one that is greater than our imaginations.
Cathy Keirstead
MAR
2023
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